I'm 65 retired love golf and have a love hate relationship with this game. A friend I met playing this game(Elentari) told me it's just a game with fake chips what are you getting upset about.Another friend Dustyangle told me the same thing its nice to have friends who care about you even when you have never met so i've discovered its being with friends that I enjoy, the game is just a bonus. So enjoy the friends you make playing and do not let the game spoil a friendship